Do we (can we, should we, is it even possible to) forgive those who really really hurt us? Not just in theory, but in reality. Can we really forgive someone who deliberately causes us harm, pain, injury? Is it possible to forgive the creeps involved in the 911 terrorist attacks? Or is forgiveness more of a "Christian-nation" ideal that is transcended by the natural desire/need for revenge when the offense is very serious? The question is a real one, and is more fully fleshed out in an article that asks the question "In the post-9/11 world, is revenge becoming as spiritually accepted as forgiveness once was?"
What do you think?
What do you think?
3 comments:
Forgiveness has never been very popular and is often mistaken for weakness. It is a Christian virtue and an important one, but does not remove an evil done nor the consequences of that evil. Our current society tends to glorify violence, sociopathy and power over others. How important the Christian message is!
Dad
Well said!
I wonder if forgiveness can remove bitterness?
Absolutely! That is one of the great benefits of forgiveness; it relieves the agrieved person of the burden of bitterness and anger and shuts off the unending rounds of retribution. The forgiving one may still seek corrective measures, but with the goal of preventing further harm, not avenging past ones.
Dad
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